So I was driving this afternoon and I realized I had a flat tire on the corner of Clarks Lane and Western Run Blvd. I calmly pulled over, put on my hazard lights and walked to a friends house to call Greg (I realized my cell phone wasn't in my purse when I pulled over). When he came and started to change the tire, all these different emotions started going through my head.
Let me say first that on a good day, I have about .05% feminist in me. Meaning, I am fine with men and women being treated differently. I don't think men should be treated better or given more opportunities in life because of their gender, but I recognize the innate differences in men and women and I even celebrate them. Having said that I have to say that I was feeling all sorts of self-loathing at the fact that I don't know how to change a tire. My inner feminist was screaming at me that I had to call my husband to come and help me when I should really know how to do this. My inner anti-feminist was screaming at me that it is good I have a husband who knows how to change a tire and reminding me that I have AAA for a reason. In the 15 minutes it took Greg to change the tire, I went back and forth with a plethora of emotions.
Then it hit me that even if I did know how to change a tire, I wouldn't physically be able to do it at this point (or probably any points in the future ) in my life since I have had my neck/back problems. What a waste of a good inner monologue.
Posted by peninah at November 4, 2007 03:48 PM | TrackBackIt's good I have such a good and talented son in law!!
Posted by: your mother at November 4, 2007 07:20 PMA few Erev Shabboses ago, I was in Passaic, and my Pookie's roommate (and my soon-to-be roommate) had a dead battery. My Pookie opened the hood of her car and their lay half a dead squirrel. BARF!
Posted by: The Enforcer at November 4, 2007 10:25 PMChanging a tire's no big deal, but there's no way any guy is going to let you do it. No sooner have you popped the trunk than there will be a Y chromosome jumping out of his car to help you.
So I have to ask. Who's liberated?
Posted by: therapydoc at November 4, 2007 10:46 PM